Please DO let me go....

Thursday, January 20, 2011


You know what’s sad about love?
It’s when you happen to know that there’s just no hope for you to be together yet you still pray to make it work.
It’s when your mind says let go but your heart says hold on.
It’s when you dream of that person almost every night only to wake up in the morning with tears in your eyes.
And most of all, it’s when no matter how you try to forget that person, you just can’t.
Because of the fact that you love that person and you just don’t know why.

Letting go of the person I deeply love and care about, for whatever reason often leaves as helplessly shattered. But on the otherhand, clinging pointlessly to what has been. Memories or relationships...usually isn't very good for us in the end. But learning to have the courage to let go is a sign of GROWTH. It is an indication that I'm mature enough to know what I can do without and that I'm ready to make room for what I really need in my next phase of my life.

Goodbye is a sad thing, but it is very real. I have to face the fact that I have to say goodbye sometime in my life and there's no easy way of saying it. That is why people often take off when they least expect it. They just walk away because they can't figure a way of saying goodbye.

Some people think that it's holding on that make us strong; sometimes it's letting go.
To let go isn’t to forget, not to think about, or ignore.
It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret.
Letting go isn’t about winning or losing.
It’s not about pride and it’s not about how you appear, and it’s not obsessing or dwelling on the past.
Letting go isn’t blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness.
It’s not about giving in or giving up.
Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat.
To let go is to cherish the memories, but to overcome and move on.
It is having an open mind confidence in the future.
Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing.
To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow.
It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain.
Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving.
Letting go is growing up.

However, undoubtly still i miss you somehow :(

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